Perception

    As a magician, obviously the subject of how things appear (or disappear) is very important. In relation to the individual and self-esteem, the ways in which we see ourselves, as well as our abilities, is a key to development. This subject is dealt with in great detail, as it is my belief that how we look at the world and our relation to it is of primary importance in building a strong base for a positive self image.

    I have a wonderful illustration about how our first impressions often can guide us to a limited perception. As an example, three distinctly different sized ropes are shown. I ask the kids if the ropes are the same or different. They are obviously different lengths, but other than that, they are all exactly the same, i.e., color, material, each has a knot on the end, etc... Interesting how quickly we make distinctions based on size, color, upbringing, what mom or dad does, etc...

    My main illustration here is that while we do have differences, we share a great deal of similar aspects as well. I use the simple example of the fact that we are all human beings, and have the kids give me examples of how we are all the same, yet being able to discuss good things about our differences as well.

    I also talk about ways in which we perceive ourselves and the world we live in can have a great impact on what we are able to accomplish. Much of the time, if we believe we can do it, there is a much greater likelihood we will be able to do so. However, when we have a strong disbelief, even if we set out to try, it can actually keep us from accomplishing what we so strongly desire. More about this later ...